5. Those t-shirts with the giant designs on the front (or, worse, the button downs with the giant designs on the back) are not cute. They are douchey. Please don't wear them. (Also on this list: sweatbands, sweatplants with the elastic on the bottom, slip on sandals and over-sized plastic sunglasses with the designers names on the side.)
... Meh. No opinion on this point really. The only one I agree with is that guys don't look good in sandals of any sort. The ones that get me are the ones with the sexy shoes. Yeah, remember the Bebo days anyone? There was a skin that stated "she notices your shoes first" or "she loves you for your shoes" or something like that. I'm one of those girls.
6. Holidays and anniversaries may not seem like a big deal to you, but they are to us. Even if we say we don't want something for Valentines Day, we want something. It isn't the "thing" we care about; it's the fact that you are thinking about us. So think about us, dammit.
The reverse psychology game. We all love to play it.
7. Thongs are really uncomfortable. You may think they are in the end all be about being sexy .. but they hurt.
No comment. I wouldn't know.
8. Our friends are like a second family to us, so once you're in with them, you're set for life. Even though we know they're loud and obnoxious sometimes, learn to love 'em. We deal with your boys, so do the same for us.
Your boys may be the more responsible ones that still manage to have fun. And I wouldn't call it "dealing" with them because I would love to befriend them myself even if it weren't for you. But it would be nice for the same thing to happen to me. My boys may not always be responsible, but they know how to have fun and they're there for me. They're like the older brothers I never had. They're just protective of me, kay?
9. There's nothing we hate more than being called crazy or dramatic. No matter how much you think we overreact about our problems, they matter to us and we need you on our side to support us, rather than making us feel worse.
So, so true. I don't like being told I'm overreacting because I'm only reacting to the emotions I'm feeling. If they're too extreme for you then get out. You wouldn't have a clue what I'm feeling or go through because no matter how I explain it to you.. it's not the same thing. Just reassure me that you're there for me, you always will be.
10. If it's possible that there is anything worse than calling us crazy, it's comparing us to other girls. I know it's a double standard that we should be allowed to drool over a shirtless picture of Zac Effron Taylor Lautner we find in Us Weekley, while freaking out when you make a comment about any female celeb in a bikini. You might not realise it but we automatically compare ourselves to every other girl on the planet. So saying another girl is hot makes us think we're not good enough. Crazy maybe, but we're just being honest.
I don't like being compared to anyone by anyone. I'm not them and I won't be. I never will be. I'm only me.
By the way, these are only my thoughts and views so any guys reading them shouldn't take them as pointers to go score girls. We don't all think the same and as a matter of fact, we all do very differently.
