I hate the feeling of jealousy, and I hate being jealous of something not even worthy of envying. But maybe it's not that I'm jealous, maybe I just feel threatened. I know I shouldn't, but I can't help the way I feel.
Do you remember reading those things that go something like.. "10 things guys want girls to know" and that. I remember one of the points being "guys always need to be reassured that you still love them". But is it always the girls' duty? Like making sandwiches? There's also something along the lines of "don't leave the guy hanging because he'll always over-think the problem and conclude with something worse than it actually is". Girls think a lot as well. Every small move you make can trigger her senses and will leave her thinking and analysing it for days on end.
But then again.. I've told someone before there is no real way to compare experiences, thoughts and feelings. Although one thing may seem like the end of the world to you, others may possibly perceive it as nothing.. because they've been through worse. Guys and girls both think relatively similarly and when you're in a relationship it's not always about you. Take the other person's thoughts into consideration as well.
