Ain't thinkin' bout you.♣
Saturday, January 22, 2011 / 9:12 AM
It's 9:17am and I still can't sleep. Safe to say, fuck my life.
So while I was lying in bed it suddenly popped in mind that I hadn't blogged for.. ages and I apoligise for the lack of entries but does anyone even read this anymore? Haha, I don't think so. I'd update you on what I've been up to, as usual but I haven't been doing much even though I'm out today. All you need to know is, Vanessa's house is like my second home and I'm pretty much always there if not out.
Anywhos, one of the two things that I've been thinking of blogging about is haters. Having Formspring is where this thought comes from, it's actually quite entertaining hehe. But that's besides the fact. Haters, are sad people. Personally, I don't hate. I find it an absolute waste of time and I would much rather focus on the people I love than the people who upset me in one way or another. I don't let the things they say about me get to me because if they could say that in the first place, then they clearly don't know me at all and their judgement on me shouldn't, won't and doesn't affect me whatsoever. The only person who knows me at all these days and has a right to say anything to be honest is Vanessa herself, but even she doesn't.
But yeah, seriously don't even bother with people who hate on others and have nothing better to do than start on you and abuse you, thinking it's going to bring you down. Don't let the things they make up and spread about you get to you, and don't let it make you doubt yourself because you clearly know who you are and what you're doing. Why should the opinion of someone who doesn't know you affect you? Just stay true to yourself.
I could go on, and on, and on, and on and continuously make up points which pretty much revolve around the same thing but in the end all I want you to know is to not let haters get to you. :) Don't retaliate either, cause that does nothing. Just keeps it going around and around and around and it'll never stop. You're better than that, just drop it and show 'em you don't care.
The other thing that's been on my mind? People who are whipped and tied down. Personally, I don't like the idea of it at all and I find it stupid, but that's just me.
For the person who is the whipped one, and is the one being tied down, are you okay with it? If you are, that's fine. No problemo, but if you aren't.. Speak up for yourself hey? You have a right to freedom, even if you are in a relationship because that doesn't mean you can't have friends. Your partner needs to learn to trust you.
For the person doing the whipping and the tying down, are you for reaaaaaal? I understand you want that person all to yourself and they should take it as a complement, but still.. they have a life you know? Because they have a partner doesn't mean they don't need their friends too. And if you're still going to go ahead with that and stop them from seeing their friends and going out and all, at least make up for the life you're taking away from them. Everyone needs some cool down, chillax time. Just going out and having fun. A little getaway, y'know? :)
But yes, that's just my personal opinion. Don't let me dictate your relationship and how it works, cause I'm not you and I don't know how you two are. No one should control your relationship but you two yourselves. (Y)
That was .. a lot for me to say aha and maybe it'll get me back in the blogging mood but who knows, we'll see how it goes hey? I'm off to try and get some sleep now, cause I have a big two nights ahead of me.. It's some white bitch's birthday.
